Same as me, but I’ve had a shed load of fun on the way, made great friends and you don’t want to be the richest man in the graveyard 
As long as my wife doesnt sell the stuff for what I said I paid for it she will do ok out of life as well…
Luckily my wife is very supportive and knows what I have spent, she once told me to get rid of a horrible rear wing I put on and buy a nice curved one, I pointed out how much it was and she just said “so, buy it the other looks horrible” it was the Reverie one I bought in the end!
I was tongue in cheek. I have a supportive wife as well.
She understands that I work hard and is happy to support my car hobbies. Family / House / Cars in that order have served me well. I do get the occasional eye roll , but hey ho!