clio is a bit raw so it might not suit wifey so much, Leon’s are good fun and cheap, but if you want 2 door the ST might suit better I don’t really like the civics, not sure why just never have…
I’ve very recently been down this road with a similar list of cars, intitially atleast.
I ended up stretching my budget from the original �10k as I wanted something a little newer and that would be ok with some motorway cruising. Anyways I plummed for a BMW 135i and so far (4 weeks in) love it. Effortless speed, pretty comfortable but still handles ok for a barge. Oh and a remap should see around 380bhp and 400 lbs/ft. Nice that its rwd too.
May not quite be fit for your purpose if used soley for around town but thought I would share.